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  1. Melinda Holmes - Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kinky Sex for Women: ...
    Do you feel that your relationship has lost a certain interest, for you or your partner ... or both? Is there a power imbalance in your relationship that makes you both feel 'out of kilter'? Do you long for the erotic and sexual excitement that your relationship once had? Are you a little confused as to just what BDSM is? Or are you just looking for something entirely NEW in your love life? Whatever your situation, BDSM is a culture which can entirely rejuvenate an existing relationship or establish a new one, setting up power balances that leave both partners with the secure feeling that they mesh more completely than ever before - complementing, not clashing! Melinda Holmes, a renowned author of erotic fiction and non-fiction, has written a follow up to her bestseller , especially for women and relationship partners who would like to learn more about the advantages of putting the power practices of BDSM in their love life - and not a whip or chain in sight! Put away those popular misconceptions about BDSM, and learn how an equitable partnership uses BDSM to honor both partners, and cement more firmly the cornerstones of your love relationship in Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kinky Sex for Women. In Beginner's Guide to BDSM and Kinky Sex for Women, the guide to a stronger, more loving relationship, you'll: Learn what the three cornerstones of a loving relationship are - and how to make them stronger than ever. Find out what BDSM is, your place in it, and why it may be nothing like what is pictured in popular culture - unless YOU want it to be. Discover why you may unconsciously desire to be submissive, and the pleasures in that role. Become aware of dominance over a submissive as an awesome responsibility, and a hallmark of love and respect. See favorite games in BDSM play that cost little and feel SO good! Learn precautions for beginners - what you DON'T know CAN hurt you! These, and many more secrets and tips from America's foremost writer of erotic fictio
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  2. Pipedream FF Limited Edition Fantasy Love Paddle Spanking and Teasing
    Unisex Made for Kink Ideal for couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM It hurts so good!

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  3. Tymber Dalton - The Reluctant Dom (Siren Publishing Menage and More)
    The Reluctant Dom (Siren Publishing Menage and More) [Menage and More: Erotic Consensual BDSM Menage a Trois Romance, M/F/M, public exhibition, spanking, flogging, whipping, sex toys, HEA for M/F] Love hurts...if you're lucky. Kaden's dying, but before he goes he has one problem to solve-he must ask his oldest and dearest friend, Seth, to take over as Dom and Master to his beloved wife, Leah. Seth has always seen himself as the perpetual screwup and... Full description
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  4. Meredith O'Reilly - Learning to Be Little Again
    Twenty-four-year-old Juliana once loved being a little, until the cruelty of the man she had called daddy broke her heart and she decided to never be little again. But when she fails to take care of herself and becomes ill, a worried friend brings her to Dr. Robert O'Connor, claiming that he will understand what she needs. Juliana is embarrassed and nervous, but to her surprise, Robert gives her a teddy bear and tells her a fairy tale to help her relax. Though the exam is intimate and thorough, Juliana feels safe the whole time and hopes afterwards that she'll see more of the handsome doctor. From the moment Robert heard about Juliana's past, he wanted nothing more than to take away her pain and make sure she never has to worry about anyone hurting her again. He is thrilled when he asks her out and she shyly agrees. Though Juliana claims she doesn't want to be a little anymore, he longs to prove to her that age play with him is nothing to fear. Robert is a patient man, and before long Juliana is calling him "daddy," playing with her dolls, and coloring. He delights in taking care of her every need, dressing her in footie pajamas, and brushing her hair. Even when Juliana is disobedient and Robert has to put his baby girl over his knee and spank her bare bottom, it is always followed by plenty of loving hugs and cuddles. Soon Juliana is eating more and sleeping better, and feels healthier than she has in a long time. But when the man who once mistreated her skips bail and threatens to hurt her if she continues to see her new daddy, she becomes terrified. Will she ever be free to relax in her daddy's arms, knowing he will keep his little girl safe from everything and love her no matter what? Publisher's Note: Learning to be Little Again is a stand-alone sequel to Little Samantha's Choice. It is an erotic romance novel that contains spankings, age play, medical play, anal play, sexual scenes, elements of BDSM, and more. If such material offends you, please don't buy
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  5. M.S. Force - Rapturous: Volume 4 (Quantum Series)
    From author Marie Force, writing as M.S. Force, the "New York Times" bestselling Quantum trilogy expands into a series in this standalone novel that picks up on Oscar night. Academy Award-winning director Hayden Roth kisses the woman he desires above all others, even though he knows she can never be his. Addison York craves her boss's best friend, Hayden, but he has never given her an ounce of encouragement... until tonight when he kissed her after winning the Oscar. Was that kiss the start of something or just another in a long line of frustrations where Hayden is concerned? Something is keeping him from acting on the attraction that simmers between them, and Addie is determined to find out what it is. But when she stumbles upon the secret that Hayden, Flynn and her other close friends have kept from her, will she allow hurt feelings to get in the way of true love? When Hayden won't share his BDSM lifestyle with her, Addie decides to conduct her own research. Will she be intrigued or repulsed? And what will Hayden do when he finds out how she's been spending her evenings?
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  6. Alexis Hall - For Real
    Laurence Dalziel is worn down and washed up, and for him, the BDSM scene is all played out. Six years on from his last relationship, he's pushing forty and tired of going through the motions of submission. Then he meets Toby Finch. Nineteen years old. Fearless, fierce, and vulnerable. Everything Laurie can't remember being. Toby doesn't know who he wants to be or what he wants to do. But he knows, with all the certainty of youth, that he wants Laurie. He wants him on his knees. He wants to make him hurt, he wants to make him beg, he wants to make him fall in love. The problem is, while Laurie will surrender his body, he won't surrender his heart. Because Toby is too young, too intense, too easy to hurt. And what they have-no matter how right it feels-can't last. It can't mean anything. It can't be real.
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  7. Original Cast - 50 Shades: Musical
    50 Shades! The Musical is the original Fifty Shades Of Grey Parody. Based on the greatest novel of all time, 50 Shades! The Musical tells a sexy, hilarious story chockfull of wrestling singlets, handcuffs, and helicopters with silly names. Come see a show full of BDSM (Best Damn Songs and Music)! - See more at: http://50shadesthemusical.com/about/#sthash.WD3HTQy4.dpuf 50 Shades! The Musical is the original Fifty Shades Of Grey Parody. Based on the greatest novel of all time, 50 Shades! The Musical tells a sexy, hilarious story chockfull of wrestling singlets, handcuffs, and helicopters with silly names. Come see a show full of BDSM (Best Damn Songs and Music)! - See more at: http://50shadesthemusical.com/about/#sthash.WD3HTQy4.dpuf 50 Shades! The Musical is the original Fifty Shades Of Grey Parody. Based on the greatest novel of all time, 50 Shades! The Musical tells a sexy, hilarious story chockfull of wrestling singlets, handcuffs, and helicopters with silly names. Order now to hear a show full of BDSM (Best Damn Songs and Music)! Tracklisting: 1. Open Your Book 2. There's a Hole Inside of Me 3. Could this be the one 4. Mi Amor 5. Follow Him 6. I don't Make Love 7. Red Room 8. Any Other Couple 9. 50 Shades! 10. 50 Shades! - Reprise 11. How Much Can I Take 12. There's a Hole Inside Me - Reprise Preview of the show below:
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  8. Kinbaku 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope Black
    Play bondage games with your Partner Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated Made for Kink Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it Experience incredible sensations with this toy from Ouch
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  9. Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Animal Instinct 5-Piece Bondage Kit
    Pipedream Fetish Fantasy Animal Instinct 5-Piece Bondage Kit - Great for role-play - 5-piece kit - Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it - Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated - Experience incredible sensations with this toy from Pipedream
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  10. Japanese 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope White
    Play bondage games with your Partner Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated Made for Kink Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it Experience incredible sensations with this toy from Ouch
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  11. Japanese 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope Pink
    Play bondage games with your Partner Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated Made for Kink Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it Experience incredible sensations with this toy from Ouch
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  12. Gloria G. Brame - Different Loving Too: Real People, Real Lives, Real BDSM
    The long-awaited sequel to 1993's "Different Loving," the book that introduced BDSM to the mainstream, "Different Loving Too" takes a deep dive into the secret world of BDSM and how it has changed in the 21st century. Often emotional, always intimate, people who told their stories back then have come back to bare their souls - sharing highlights, low points, lessons learned and their secrets to successful BDSM relationships. Intriguing anecdotes, in-depth interviews and Community Dialogues are skillfully stitched together with Dr. Brame's well-known insight and renowned sexological scholarship. Readers new to BDSM will find this a bracingly honest look at a still taboo subject. Experienced BDSMers will be amazed at the Scene luminaries they recognize and the true history they reveal. Advance praise for Different Loving ""Different Loving" was a revolutionary and influential book, not just for me personally, but for how kink and BDSM was framed at an important time in our history. By including some of the same interviewees from the original book, as well as adding a whole new batch of kinksters, "Different Loving Too" continues the tradition. It explores how the kink community has evolved, along with the threads that still connect us to our past. All in all, it's a fascinating book for anyone interested in BDSM from a personal or academic standpoint." - Kali Williams, Founder of KinkAcademy.com ""Different Loving" has really grown up with its audience. The original volume, cataloging the interests and practices of people within the BDSM scene, was an elegant and vital introduction. But as I learn and grow I find that what is most interesting in kink is not the trappings, but the intellectual, emotional, and spiritual aspects that lead people to kink in the first place. "Different Loving Too" focuses on all those things. It references peer-reviewed science, and interviews practitioners on their community, on their ethics, and on their needs. "Different Loving Too" bri
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  13. Japanese 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope Red
    Play bondage games with your Partner Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated Made for Kink Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it Experience incredible sensations with this toy from Ouch
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  14. Japanese 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope Purple
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  15. Kinbaku 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope White
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  16. Melinda Holmes - 50 Shades of Better Sex: Her Guide to Spicing Up the ...
    Were you captivated by "Fifty Shades of Grey"? Did its hot eroticism and passionate love story make you hungry for the same in your life? Have you wondered how to capture the romance, the intense intimacy and enduring relationship of the BDSM lifestyle? The answers to these important questions, answers that can change your life forever and for the better, can be found in " 50 Shades of Better Sex," the hot new guide by the renowned erotic author Melinda Holmes. She shares the secrets of BDSM lifestyle experts who advise everyday people how they can incorporate these exotic-yet-mainstream erotic practices into their love lives and evolve their relationships with love partners. In a dramatic and sexy format, Melinda reveals to the reader the easy to follow practices that can lead to a better, more enduring love affair with a long term amour. Sexy, fun and unabashedly hot, this steamy guide blows all others off the book racks! Millions of women long to freshen their relationship, to add a spark of excitement to the 'same old same old.' We all feel the need, and Melinda satisfies it for us in this guide for happiness-seekers. This book will be a lifeline to a long-term, lasting relationship for countless women, a path to a satisfying love life, and help you to develop a bursting-with-happiness partnership with your man (or men!) Melinda Holmes is the pseudonym of a best selling authoress with numerous awards and popular acclaim for the quality and popularity of her erotic fiction and non-fiction. In this guide, this bestselling women's fiction author teaches you to: Throw out the stale old relationship, and build a spicy new one - with the same man! Learn what you don't say but tell your partner anyway - and how to 'read' each other's body Build yourself and your partner to exquisite pleasure Take away the senses to excite and complete one another's enjoyment Recognize locations and ways to enjoy BDSM outside of the bedroom Lead your man and yourself to longer and more
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  17. Michael Makai - Domination & Submission: The BDSM Relationship Handbook
    The definitive handbook on Domination and Submission (D/s) relationships and the BDSM lifestyle. A must-read for anyone considering or curious about non-traditional relationships within a fetish culture context. Funny, insightful, educational, and inspiring. Author Michael Makai goes in-depth on Dominants, submissives, switches, primals, and their relationship dynamics. Learn about BDSM activities, bondage, toys, groups, protocols, and safety. This book even dares to go where others fear to tread: The Gorean subculture, online D/s & BDSM, first meetings, religion vs. kink, and what could go wrong. You'll love Michael Makai's irreverent and humorous treatment of this subject as he gives you the benefit of his 35+ years of experience in the D/s and BDSM lifestyles. (Paperback, 496 pages)
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  18. Kinbaku 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope Pink
    Play bondage games with your Partner Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated Made for Kink Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it Experience incredible sensations with this toy from Ouch
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  19. Kinbaku 1,5 Meter Soft Nylon Mini Rope Purple
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  20. Mistress Dede - Dom's Guide to BDSM Training: Your Friendly Handbook on ...
    Dom's Guide to BDSM is your secret handbook for methods of dom/sub activity, containing various strategies and must-know guidelines on how to get the most out of your BDSM experience. This eBook serves as a friendly guide for the dom/master, including all of the imperative steps on how they can indulge in a dom/sub relationship, including some important terms and strategies about the basics of BDSM. This also includes a step-by-step blueprint and exciting know-how on how to train your sub and how to play with them. BDSM, also known as Bondage and Discipline, Domination and Submission/Sadomasochism has been a common practice of people who seek intense sexual pleasure for centuries. BDSM comes naturally to most individuals, since many generally crave to be dominant while others love the pain-pleasure experience of being submissive. For many, BDSM is highly erotic compared to normal sex as it brings about different excitement and fun for both dom/sub. It is designed to provide intense pleasure with some element of pain typically involved in the act or acts. It is more of a 'power game' rather than passionate sex. In the game of BDSM, dom/sub relationship it takes time and dedication to learn how to play your role. It should be properly crafted and carefully planned to create a lasting union as you enjoy the sexual activities together. So in order for you and your sub to get the most out of your BDSM experience, this book was specifically written to give you the ideas and the proper strategies on how you can train your new sub from practicing BDSM, on up to the closing ceremony.
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  21. Ouch! Cube Whip PVC Black
    Crops/fetish OUCP019 It comes with a wrist cord designed for extra comfort and security. Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated. Great for role-play. Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it. Traditional favorite for a wide variety of uses.
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  22. Jolynn Raymond - Taken In Hand: A Guide to Domestic Discipline, Power ...
    Jolynn Raymond has written a book that shares the details of her own long lasting domestic discipline marriage and her experience surrounding power exchange relationships. It explains why these unconventional relationships work so well for so many couples. The book is an in-depth tutorial that takes the relationship past the simple act of discipline, to building a rock solid foundation that will ultimately create a deep bond of trust and love between those involved. Taken In Hand will guide those interested in adding consensual domestic discipline, dominance and submission, and structure to their own relationship through the initial steps of communication, understanding and discovering both partner's needs, creating mutual and realistic expectations, rules, and consequences, to the inevitable first spanking. Taken In Hand will prove useful to those just starting out, as well as to those with some experience, as Ms. Raymond outlines the pitfalls, difficulties, and successes she has encountered in her own marriage. She also emphasizes the importance of consent and pays special attention to the fine line between discipline and abuse. The last part of the book examines the styles and types of spanking, gives an anal sex tutorial, talks about the responsibilities or being a dominant and gives tips for the submissive partner. Whether you need insight into BDSM as it relates to relationships or are trying to build a domestic discipline marriage from scratch, Taken In Hand will prove to be a comprehensive and practical guide. Taken In Hand was one of the three finalists in the nonfiction category for best BDSM book of the year at the BDSM Writers Con in New York City in August of 2015. It was nominated for the Golden Flogger Award.
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    Fetish/whips OUWLS001 It comes with a wrist cord designed for extra comfort and security. Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated. Great for role-play. Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it. Traditional favorite for a wide variety of uses.
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    Fetish/whips OULM001 Perfect for those who love to dominate or be dominated. Great for role-play. Couples interested in kinky sex and BDSM will love it. Traditional favorite for a wide variety of uses. Experience Incredible sensations with this toy from Ouch!
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